What kind of sex where men like to moan

Posted on December 23rd, 2009 in Gender Life | No Comments »

Men are most afraid of a woman in bed doing? The answer is “nagging,” which is said to make a man a quick fix approach. Do men want a woman do in bed kept silent? In actual fact, the right pillow whisper, that is the best aphrodisiac recipe, which than sexy lingerie, tonic are more effective. Here are some of the men we interviewed to see if they like what kind of bed twitter bar.

Passion File 1: Praise

Chinese people are too mean to praise than the others, but my mouth, she was a sweet woman, often a few of her praise, it inspired my confidence, so that I get high up; and her love, the whole process is well happy. She likes to kiss me while praise on my lips while a good soft, good chin, sexy, nibble on my ear lobes boast it is lovely. She would down my chest and sliding probe to the navel, the obsession with smile ask to play. I know I’m not perfect, and even handsome guy is stretch, but when I see her eyes look at me, I feel the most proud.

I will usually no longer could not help but invade her. Only in front of her, I felt I was a full man, full of charm, no need to disguise himself, hoping to be able to return to her own all, let her be a most happy woman.

Passion Files 2: Foreign words

My girlfriend is a bit French, but I had a stolen French unreasonable, we usually talk in Chinese, there is only one exception, that is, when she was about to climax. Whenever she was in bed began Biqiyanjing to achieve a selfless state, always can not help but start with French: This is a signal for me that is because I know I made her carried away, while the I also know how to control my own speed. She said that the French I could not understand a word, creating a kind of exotic and mysterious excitement, there are some strange, unlike her usual.

Movie seen in a similar plot, actress mad excited at the crucial moment to talk about the indigenous languages, a man can not therefore be encouraged self-suppression, a lively sex were completed. I have asked a female friend, she said her boyfriend loved France Ji Whisper in her bed, something he did not understand Chinese, it seems that the effectiveness of foreign language universally accurate, but the trick is, must not pick each other completely did not understand the language.

Passion File 3: groan

And groans of his girlfriend always makes me very excited, there is a sense of conquest, as if she has been brave to me, “torture” that they submit to the.

Passion File 4: Children’s Language

I like girls to me like a baby, especially the children talking like a little girl child language, like men do not know is that some vague “love child” tendencies. Once my girlfriend whim, I entered the front, when suddenly, said: “You can not bully me Oh! I am still a virgin Jesus! Oh, for the first time it really hurts Oh! … … It hurts,” I really feel that she seems to be a virgin, could not resist bullying her immediately afterwards, she felt a kind of want to love and care, to protect her feelings. I love her like a child’s tone, but also like her to meet my “virgin” for himself. Perhaps you think that this man a bit too much, but no way, man is like that.

Analytical diabetes and sex

Posted on December 4th, 2009 in Diabetes, Gender Life | No Comments »

Diabetes is a chronic systemic endocrine diseases, the basic pathological changes of the absolute or relative lack of insulin caused by sugar, protein, fat, water and electrolyte substances such as metabolic disorders. Mainly characterized by high blood sugar, typical symptoms of “more than three a little”, that is, polyuria, polydipsia, food, and often accompanied by weight loss. Its causes are diverse, the pathogenesis is also more complicated. In most cases, probably in genetically susceptible individuals to various environmental factors, result of the interaction.

Diabetes and sexual

Diabetes can be a normal sex life, sex life process does not increase the diabetes. However, when severe diabetic complications, then the health of the spouse to be understanding of the patient can not be forced to act, or adverse effects may occur.

Impotence male impotence incidence of diabetes up to 40% to 60%, the symptoms gradually worsened. Initially only penile erection will not be strong, you can ejaculation, there is an orgasm, but also a normal sex drive. With the extended duration of diabetes may eventually develop into complete impotence. Impotence caused by diabetes, with the following factors:

Early blood testosterone and gonadotropins to normal, after the occurrence of pituitary and testicular pathological changes in a corresponding reduction in sex hormones;

Diabetic patients with renal insufficiency or liver dysfunction, neurological degeneration, including the autonomic control of penile erection, the penis because of neuropathy affect the tactile feel, reduced erectile response, peripheral arterial, affecting blood supply to the penis, can also cause impotence; vascular sclerosis, when it comes to penis erection will be affected by a small artery function; the spirit and the influence of drugs.

In addition, impotence can be a symptom of diabetes earlier, hence the phenomenon should be related to impotence diabetes checks. If confirmed to have diabetes should be actively treated, carefully controlled diet, regular application of hypoglycemic drugs. Diabetes under control, impotence symptoms can also be improved. If did not receive effective treatment, accompanied by loss of libido, and diabetes has been controlled by checking at this time should take into account the spirit of factors, the need to eliminate anxiety, his wife to give co-ordination and comfort.

Duration of diabetes for too long, even though there blood sugar under control, but the impotence persists, not only in sexual intercourse, that is, in the early morning when the phenomenon of non-penile erection, which is already organic impotence impotence may be related to neuropathy, vascular damage or other related endocrine disorders, should go to the hospital detailed examination, symptomatic treatment. Organic impotence may, by surgical implantation of penile prosthesis in order to achieve the purpose of sexual life.

Retrograde ejaculation by about 1% a 2% of diabetic patients in retrograde ejaculation, or orgasm, when semen from the urethra outside the mouth are not fired, but a counter-current to the bladder, which dominated the patient’s autonomic damage to the bladder neck, bringing the ejaculation, when the should be in closed state into an open bladder neck.

Women with diabetes who have no male sexual function problems obviously, the psychological pressure of small, mainly for the lack of orgasm, it was statistical occurrence rate as high as 35.2%. The reason for the autonomic nervous system damage. In addition, female patients a slight degree of vaginal lubrication reduced sensitivity to autonomic nerve damage to the vagina weaken, and prone to vaginal infections, infection can cause painful intercourse caused by low sexual desire. Husband and wife can be used, such as vaginal dryness vaginal lubricants to provide lubrication and increase sexual pleasure. If vaginal fungal infection, can be partially used nystatin to eliminate the local inflammation. Treatment with hypoglycemic drugs, diet, infection control and other comprehensive adjustments, also allows the gradual recovery of sexual function.

Women with diabetes should be actively treated diabetes, when the disease under control after the sexual dysfunction can also be improved. At the same time rational use of drugs, a thorough treatment of vaginitis. Appeared atrophic vaginitis female patients may be appropriate to oral estrogen, such as Nylestriol films and so on can also be used vaginal lubricants.

The relationship between diabetes and birth

Diabetic women, pregnancy issues should be carefully considered. The relationship between diabetes and pregnancy, there are two cases: one is diabetic pregnancy, that is, pre-pregnancy diabetes or impaired glucose tolerance have been women who appeared pregnant, postpartum diabetes, no change or increase; the other is gestational diabetes, that is, pre-pregnancy without diabetes or impaired glucose tolerance, diabetes mellitus after pregnancy, postpartum return to normal.

Diabetic women, if pregnant, have to go to the hospital the doctor to do a comprehensive and detailed pre-pregnancy and prenatal care to understand the current severity of diabetes, and whether the time of pregnancy and childbirth, mode, etc. This is very necessary, this must not lightly.

If the pregnant woman accompanied by diabetic nephropathy, coronary atherosclerosis, proliferative retinopathy fundus when abortion should be made early in order to interrupt her pregnancy. If accompanied by high blood pressure, preferably also the termination of pregnancy. Under such circumstances, the mother and infant health at risk.

6 ways to help sexual men's reproductive health

Posted on November 10th, 2009 in Gender Life | No Comments »

How can I help him to maintain reproductive health, allowing him to charge after passion.

Loose vagina so why suddenly there is pain, there are sweet and full record of my first night of the 11 Most Effective sex you know? * Women have sex several times a week the most health? * Husband and I have to do three times a night the secret love of the vagina is too wet, no feeling of love

1. Closer after, let him sleep as soon as possible

Passion tour, perhaps you want a lingering warmth of “suffix.” However, to his long-term sexual health, to abandon the requirement is that you are worthy of sacrifice. U.S. physiologist who has done a lot of investigation and found that men with erection sufficient sleep, and upheld the long-term lack of sleep longer than men, the time should be longer.

Expert analysis: the need for adequate time for the penis to achieve three to five times the “sleep erection”, which is its own re-charging process. A man sleeping in the process, the penis does not consciously interrupted on several occasions up to 1 hour or so of the erection in order to stretch a way to make the blood oxygen is to raise sufficient nutrition. In theory, his night Bo more affectionate when he was the erectile tissues of the more toughness. Therefore, as the wife will let him have enough time to sleep, the night Bo him ample time and opportunity.

2. Abandoning cars as far as possible let him walk

Because time constraints and busy work, more and more men become “rely on car owners,” or insists on driving, or playing, or Zuogong Jiao, sometimes just a half-point road do not want to proudly go. In a medical study found that men are hard to walk, their ratio of occurrence of erectile dysfunction, only half of the sedentary men. So the wife might enable him to walk to walk, if it’s really no time, often climbing stairs is a good choice.

Expert analysis: lack of exercise, in cars is almost a common problem in modern white-collar men, long-term such a result is chronic constipation. Sexologists study found that pain and suffering from ejaculation, premature ejaculation, men do not ejaculate, it is often the existence of such phenomenon. Interestingly, when the chronic constipation to reduce or disappear, with the sexual life-related barriers also will reduce or disappear. The study suggests that chronic constipation and sexual dysfunction, there are a link between. Affected by chronic constipation due to the stimulation of levator ani muscles, urethral sphincter can occur such as spasticity. Over time, these muscle groups will appear malnutrition and over-relaxation phenomenon. These muscle groups and penile erection, ejaculation has the proper functioning of a very close relationship. In particular the pubococcygeus, it was called the “sex muscle” that if the current is slack or abnormal state of tension, it will cause the sensitivity decreased, resulting in sexual dysfunction.

3. Tell him to more than yawn

Usually It is believed that the body in exhaustion and lack of oxygen, the people will not help to relieve tired yawn. The sexology experts believe that, as a wife may wish to encourage her husband to have a conscious multi-yawn, so that helped him have a good and strong erection.
Expert analysis: A man’s body, the yawning and penile erection is caused by a chemical called nitrogen oxides controlled substances. Oxides of nitrogen spread to his brain, after both could reach the neural control of breathing Department may also be along the spinal cord down to the energy transfer to the penile blood vessels. Sometimes these two functions also play a role, which is playing a big yawn, he will tremble when the penis causes. Therefore, encouraging him to yawn, helping to clear his main neural pathways, so that stronger erections.

4. Close attention to his blood sugar level

Italian researchers to a recent study shows that men with diabetes, their erectile function with impaired glucose levels than the normal ratio of men above 70%. Suffering from diabetes is caused by the fact that the couple had the fastest single one of the ways of life. Therefore, as a wife, pay close attention to her husband’s blood sugar levels, especially when he appeared thin and body of unknown causes persistent unhealed ulcer, it is necessary to urge him to the hospital as soon as possible. Of course, once a year check blood sugar is also very necessary.

Expert analysis: Diabetes may be involving the nerves, blood supply, endocrine, psychological and other aspects, resulting in male sexual dysfunction. The parts of nerve function and structural damage, so that information is not blocked, while sex hormones and sexual function related to secretion of reduced penile erection of course, no way. Patients with diabetes there is a strange so-called reverse ejaculation, that is not a transurethral resection of semen shot forward, but back into the bladder. Sperm depletion in patients with the misconception that their constant state of anxiety. In fact, this is a urinary diversion at the “valve” guided obstacles, so that the semen turned to straying into the bladder.

5. To help him decompression

Intense pace of work and the intense social competition so that men are in a sheet, the pressure under the net. At the same time, his interest in sex was dampened, even for his own lack of confidence. Decompression of his wife to act as teacher, let him relax after work quickly, for example, do sports, recreational activities, a hot shower and so on. Stayed true to his body and mind completely relaxed, and then go into the sexual life, the situation gets better.

Expert analysis: If the men in their daily lives are always in being nervous, it is difficult to generate sufficient sexual excitement. Because men’s sexuality was born in their own real estate directly to the cerebral cortex of some excitement central. Any kind of mental stress and mental fatigue caused by the activities of men will result in the excitement of the central brain severely inhibited sexual desire can not be generated as usual.

6. He was prepared to give low-fat food

Busy working so many men choose to deal with fast-food fiasco, but a common problem is the high-fat fast-food, high-calorie. Therefore, the wife may wish to breakfast and dinner consciously give him to eat low-fat foods, such as fish, meat, shrimp, bamboo shoots, green leafy vegetables, radishes, and low-fat or skim milk, all kinds of fruit. At noon, he had to eat fast food out, they can make in his bag fitted with an apple or a cup of low-fat yogurt.

Expert analysis: high-fat diet or a calorie surplus, likely to cause increased blood levels of cholesterol, the formation of high blood cholesterol, so the blood to become sticky, slow flow, reducing oxygen-carrying capacity. Even worse, resulting in atherosclerosis. As a result, penile arteries naturally become less smooth, the supply of the penis blood vessels narrow, or even completely occluded, resulting in insufficient blood supply to the penis has become “a river without water”, thus an obstacle to male sexual function.

Should wash before sex life?

Posted on October 16th, 2009 in Gender Life | No Comments »

Prior to the sexual life of the people, are used to very much love a bath, first, for the elimination of daytime fatigue; second is to clean the skin, remove the smell; third washing genitals, to prevent virus infection. In fact, this approach also has its drawbacks.

We are the body’s blood while the cycle repeated itself, but its amount is relatively constant in all organs and tissues of the amount is relatively stable. Interestingly, what part of the body organs, the burden of work, temporary increase in the number of its blood supply, of course, this part of the increase in blood was drawn for the other organs in that part of the.

Let us look at a bath immediately after the sexual life.

If you use a hot water bath, body skin, extensive hyperemia immediately, will immediately attract a lot of blood, the body will soon exceed the number of 450 milliliters per minute. While taking a bath with cold water, when the body’s blood vessels will be extensive skin contraction, and vasoconstriction occurred immediately after the relaxation phenomenon, would lead to extensive skin hyperemia, similar to hot water bath will take away a lot of blood in the human body.

If the bath immediately after sexual intercourse, sexual organs will suddenly due to congestion, there must be a considerable source of blood, but this time a large number of further accumulation of blood in the skin, there have been contradictions on the deployment, which would impede the normal sexual life, easy to sexual dysfunction.

In addition, the body immediately after bathing will appear to arise refreshing sleep, this time, if sexual intercourse and force action on health is also a disadvantage. In fact, in order to resolve this conflict is simple. First, take a bath before going to bed very much love, and then the United States and the United States sweet sleep, and then engaging in sexual life or simply the early morning sex life. Because this time is the sexual peak. Second, go to sleep before their sex life, then get out of bed bath, so that both increase the quality of sleep, but also to clean the skin, especially the purpose of washing the genitals.

Hepatitis B and Flirt-life of "contradictions"

Posted on October 11th, 2009 in liver | No Comments »

The risk of sexual transmission of hepatitis B virus be?

Sex life is an important part of married life, not all patients with liver disease can affect sexual function and sexual life, and only severe hepatitis, cirrhosis, liver damage due to severe loss of compensation and hormonal disorders may cause sexual dysfunction and sexual obstacles of life.

In the HBV-infected blood, saliva, semen. Vaginal secretions, menstrual blood can be detected in HBV, sexually transmitted HBV has long been affirmed and even abroad, to include hepatitis B, “sexually transmitted diseases,” which indicates the importance of sexually transmitted hepatitis.

Some people have been tested on the vagina for sexual intercourse gibbons action treatment, then sperm injection containing HBV of its vagina, the results gibbon infected with HBV. This suggests that sexual intercourse can indeed share the infected HBV. It was observed in the human body, the newlyweds On one side are HBV carriers, the other not, but after marriage, about 10% -20% of the other infected with HBV. There are 52 cases of our newly married young people (of which 30 males and 20 female) in hepatitis B carriers, and married for one year of observation, their spouses were not hepatitis B carriers, not the spouse of HBV infection in married for one year 29% are infected with HBV, a hepatitis B carrier, after analysis, the exclusion of other infections are mainly marital sexual intercourse sexual intercourse infection.

So, sex between husband and wife caused by HBV infection rate of about 10% -30% or so. Some scholars believe that sex between husband and wife HBV infection is not high, we have seen one of the spouses of HBV carriers, and living together 10 years, decades and no instances of infection. The two sides are not necessarily to be infected, as evidenced by the fact that a lot.

HBV infection can lead to abnormal sexual behavior is higher, our survey of some of the sexual promiscuity, they HBV infection rates as high as 39.1%, while the normal group of HBV infection rate was 9.8 percent, a difference very significant. There are prostitutes on the 560 cases of internal investigations, they HBV infection rate was 21.6%, foreign research reports prostitutes in a country in West Africa HBV infection were as high as 58.1% -80. 2%, the results astounding.

Abnormal behavior including homosexuality, their sexual behavior have “mouth – genital,” “mouth – anal,” “genitalia – Anus,” although they have to clean rectum before sexual intercourse, but there are scholars of fiber endoscopy gay intestinal who found that 59% of the human intestinal existence of asymptomatic lesions, which is frequently a result of flushing and anal sex. If a party is a hepatitis B carriers, so that the other very high risk of HBV infection.

The sexual transmission of HBV is certain exists, it is with the following factors:

⑴, the more sexual partners, higher risk of infection.

⑵, HBV infection in vivo viral load the higher the more active viral replication, the greater the risk of infection

⑶, more poor hygiene, the more susceptible to HBV

⑷, abnormal sexual behavior, abnormal sexual risk behaviors for HBV infection

⑸, themselves must be an HBV susceptible, which means that the body does not look HBV antibodies (anti-HBs), it is easy to infection HBV, such as the body to produce antibodies “anti-HBs” will no longer infected with HBV.

In this case, how should patients with liver disease do sex life?

In the acute phase of viral hepatitis due to liver cell damage, tired, decreased libido, so acute hepatitis should prohibit all sexual activity, in order to reduce physical exertion to promote liver cell recovery, otherwise they will be worse.

Hepatitis recovery may be appropriate to their sex life, and without a sense of fatigue as a degree. With chronic hepatitis and cirrhosis patients may lower sexual desire should not be forced sex life; as to achieve clinical cure of acute hepatitis, chronic hepatitis, up to cure the basic standards in a stable condition for more than six months may be sexually active; followed up after clinical cure of acute hepatitis, one year without exception, chronic hepatitis, no abnormalities were observed for 2 years to the task, and can lead a normal sexual life; HBsAg carriers may be too modest sex life, and consciously controlling the frequency of life, but not indulgent.

Moderate frequency of sexual activity is appropriate, but the period of hepatic dysfunction, especially transaminase increased instability or jaundice should be stopped.

Alcohol and fatty liver disease show no obvious symptoms, half of those in liver discomfort, abdominal distension, anorexia, impotence, irregular menstruation, breast abnormalities such as small number of people with mild abnormal liver function, do not have to taboo sex life, In the abnormal liver function should be temporarily forbidden for some time to restore liver function after the resumption of sex life.

Moderate sex life help ease the sexual tension and achieve a high degree of relaxation wholeheartedly, but also contribute to excessive consumption of fat, to reduce the accumulation of fat in the body, but also played the role of diet and lipid-lowering mile.

Hepatitis in patients with sexual health:

1, acute hepatitis period, when the GPT was significantly higher, malaise, jaundice and other symptoms, they should prohibit sexual activity.

2, recovering from acute hepatitis patients, can be controlled to carry out marital sex life, but it should not be too frequent, and time should not be too long, to the next day without a sense of fatigue degree.

3, patients with liver cirrhosis due to the impact of disease in general are relatively indifferent to sexuality, this time should not bite the bullet, but should comply with the wishes natural. When the liver under control, the in vivo metabolism of sex hormones have been adjusted and the restoration of normal sexual function can also be improved correspondingly.

4, hepatitis B virus carriers and controls, as there is no need for any psychological burden of sexual life.

Chinese medicine treatment of premature ejaculation causes and methods

Posted on September 1st, 2009 in Folk Health Tips | No Comments »

Chinese medicine practitioners believe that premature ejaculation with a multi-Deficiency Syndrome. Yin Fire Kang’s disease were as follows: Hand, Foot and upset hot Yaoxisuanruan, Yi Bo, copulation urgent, night sleep soundly easy to wake up, etc.; Shenqi Without a solid disease were as follows: weak chills, urine clear long, nocturnal enuresis, an erection is not Caine, etc..
Premature ejaculation are many reasons, generally there are several common factors: 1, nerve lesions or other organizations, so that male organs, nerves become sensitive, and often explosive; 2, caused by premature ejaculation, impotence, or male organs in order to make an erection, while the constant to stimulate touch, when the erection, the sensory nerve has been excited about for a long period of accumulation, once the sex, ejaculation occurs very quickly; 3, thermal and excess or Xuhuoshangsheng poison, so that the long-term neurological condition in a low-grade fever, easy erection Yi ejaculation; 4, long-term or frequent masturbation, so often in the nerve center of involuntary excited state, and the formation of physical inertia; 5, often through the tight underpants,
So that male organ to stimulate the sensory nerve under constant oppression and lengthy excited; 6, long-term eating spicy hot foods and alcohol consumption, body hot and humid serious bet male organ caused by neural variation; 7, often to see the yellow film and television books, so that male organ a long period of congestion state, feeling nervous; kidney deficit, Shenqi Without a solid lead Gujing functionality out of control and precision difficult to hide.
Note: (1) participate actively in physical exercise, especially the deep breathing exercises to improve physical and mental quality, and enhance mind control. (2) abstain from masturbation, to avoid premarital sex. (3) emotional adjustment to eliminate the woman for fear of pregnancy, or fear of sex organs is too small, sexuality is not strong, etc. produced by tension, low self-esteem and fear. Sex life which must be relaxed. (4) Do not indulgence, do not fatigue after sexual intercourse, do not copulate barely. (5) The man suffering from premature ejaculation, the woman should not complain to blame, so as not to increase the man’s psychological pressure. (6) eat some with kidney Gujing role of food,
Such as oysters, walnut meat, Gorgon fruit, chestnuts, soft-shelled turtles, clams, pigeon eggs, pig kidney and so on. (7) Yin Fire Kang-type premature ejaculation patients should not eat too Singery of food, such as lamb, dog, sparrow, sheep whip so as to avoid worse.
Medication
1. Medicine: (1) King of Bu Xin Dan, 9 grams each time, 2 times a day. (2) big yin tonic pills, 9 grams each time, 2 times a day. Yin fire for more than two parties Kang persons. (3) golden Gujing pills, each 15 grams, 3 times a day. (4) also fine fried, each 10 ml, 2 times a day. Used for more than two parties who Shenqi Without a solid foundation.
2. Prescription: (1) Ligustrum lucidum 12 grams, 12 grams Eclipta prostrata, Schisandra 10 grams a day a quote, sub-2 Jianfu. (2) Health Rehmannia each 15 grams, paeonol 10 grams, 10 grams Alismataceae, Poria 10 grams, 10 grams cornus, Chinese yam and medicine 12 grams, Treats 6 grams, Anemarrhena 12 grams a day a quote, sub-2 times Jianfu. Yin fire for more than two parties Kang persons. (3) Schisandra 10 grams, 12 grams Dodder, raspberries 12 grams, 12 grams medlar, Plantago 10 grams (including fry), daily one quote, sub-2 Jianfu.
(4) The system of aconite 6 grams, 6 grams of cinnamon, Rehmannia 30 grams, 10 grams of psoralen, fleece-flower root 30 grams, 10 grams of Schisandra. A day a quote, sub-2 Jianfu. Used for more than two parties who Shenqi Without a solid foundation.
3. Food self-therapy (1) Gorgon 50 grams, 15 grams sub Kim (including fry), sugar consumption firing dessert. (2) tremella 5 grams, 10 grams medlar, Schisandra 5 g (including fry), firing snack food.
4. External (1) Asarum 30 grams, 20 grams of cloves, with 75% alcohol soaked 1 week later, the same room before the apply on the male organ. (2) gallnut 15 grams, Jiantang Washing male organ, 2 times a day. (3) Jinie method: This method is from the woman’s operation method is: the woman with the thumb, index finger Jinie man glans penis, thumb on the glans under the lace part, the index finger on the edge of the glans corona below the pinch 4 seconds ( do not feel pain), a sudden relaxation, a time per minute, regardless of whether the man’s ejaculation feeling. Jinie 4-5 times every night before bed, 1 week for a course of treatment, after 1-2 months treatment, can be used for sex life. Sex life,
Insert the man before the woman first Jinie 3-6 times. Entered a moment later, out again Jinie. The man was to be repeated before ejaculation Jinie. Premature ejaculation has been rectified, can be changed to Jinie roots, do not interrupt sex.